When I started my photography business I held photosessions with a lot of families. Family’s with kids of different ages. It was a challenge for me at first because you have to concentrate on more than two people and that’s not always easy. Usually the mother will say, “Don’t smile like that” or “We just ate, how can you be hungry already?” or “Settle down! Don’t get dirty!”… Usually the mother is the one that is harried, which I could totally relate to because as the mom of my household, you are usually the one coordinating your family’s entire wardrobe for this much anticipated photo session, you’re the one who has to make sure everyone is well fed and faces are cleaned… it tries to be a well coordinated machine. You don’t want to get ready too early, because then you’re just hanging out trying to stay clean or you don’t want to get ready to late because then you’re just rushed and that just puts mama in a bad mood. Trust me, I totally understand. Been there done that! Oh yes, I have. But as the photographer you’re just trying to make sure that the sun’s not directly overhead and that everyone is in focus. Lot’s of stuff going on in that little microcosm of people.
Through my photography, I’ve learned just to go with the flow. Simple as that. It’s ok mom, take a deep breath, everything will be fine. One of the big reasons you decide on family portraits is to capture the memory of every one in your family to cherish forever. Yes! I’m feelin’ it… That’s my big reason too! The best thing really is to remember why you decided to have a family photo session…. to capture who you are today so that when you look back at that photograph 2 , 5, 10, or 20 years from now, you can smile and remember the beautful, and often times, hilarious emotions running through you. Life isn’t perfect and neither is any family, so let it just happen! Family portraiture is not just capturing your family’s image, it’s also about capturing your emotions and putting them away in a time capsule for whenever you are ready to relive those memories in an instant….just by a simple glance of your family photo. If you only knew that I get a warm and cozy satisfaction deep in my gut knowing that I was able to do that for you and it puts a huge big smile in my heart.
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Have a great Wednesday!
xo, ~j
love these family shots!
Love the slide show with the thumbnail pictures. Your pictures are wonderful.
Hi Jennifer,
Here I am submitting my comment. Actually, just wanted to say hi and I love reading your blog. Please give the kids a big hug from Scott and I.
Karen
It’s funny … I am so this way when it’s my kids being photographed. I hear the words and the tone coming out of my mouth and actually wish I could stop! Especially when the best photos I take of them are when I keep my mouth shut and just let them be!
Dropping in to say hello, me me pick me!!!
great photos!!
I think you just spent a moment in my life. I worry about way too much. I need to let you just work your photographic magic and I will take a little walk while you do it.
What a gorgeous family. Sweet photo of them. Families are a bit challenging and it is very interesting to hear how you have coped..thanks for sharing 🙂
I agree =) the candid, silly pictures are always the best anyways (like the picture you took of me jumping in the air). People aren’t always totally in sync and happy all at the same time so its nice to capture all the moments.
I felt the same way. And sometimes you just have to hold the shutter down to ensure you will capture the right photo (Everyone smiling, looking at the camera at the same time, etc.), especially since that is what many parents want. But candid is great as well since you capture the emotion within the photo.
what beautiful families and stunning images!!! you have such a gift for capturing the love these families share! great work!
Thanks for this helpful post. I find family portraits to be challenging at times and sometimes I just want to take a zen moment myself. LOL!
love the old car shot! 🙂
I love the way you make the families look natural and candid.
That’s so true! We had a family portrait session done this fall and my usually happy smiley boy was so straight faced. I think we all put too much pressure on getting the perfect shot – I think we would have been much happier with a less formal/fun family photo shoot in a more natural environment.
You couldn’t have said it any better! It has nothing to do with the perfect outfit, perfect makeup or perfect KIDS!!! It is about the bond and love that you all share and capturing that today for all to remember tomorrow! Nicely done girlie!
Very nicely put Jen! You do so well capturing those special memories! Beautiful!